dancing in the dark

Last night I danced in the dark for an hour and a half.  With alot of other people.

I danced like nobody was watching, because they weren’t.  I lost myself in the dark with the beats and accompanying rivulets of sweat coating my limbs (think Niagra).  I went all animalistic, booty wiggling, pogo dancing, head swaying, hand clapping crazy .  And I absolutely loved it.

I love to dance, always have……the beat starts* and a pair of possessed shoes take over my feet and I go all James Brown**.  I seriously do.  It’s like, “hello meet my other self – the repressed child who grew up in a commune with no tv or radio whose at her first disco”.  And last night I remembered how good I feel wiggling and bouncing and shaking, and letting that crazy child out.  I slammed the dance floor with ridiculous moves and zero concern for how it looked (Will Smiths’ Wild Wild West a particular triumph).  I didn’t have to awkwardly smile to friends maintaining eye contact while flinging myself around (which I have always found a tad awkward in usual dance scenarios).

Now where did all this take place?……a mate and I went along to No Lights No Lycra.  The official blurb – ‘A monthly dance jam in the dark, for those who love to dance while no one’s watching.There is no light, no lycra, no teacher, no steps to learn, no technique, just free movement. NLNL is a space where you can completely let go, shake out the stress of the week, and lose yourself in the music and the physicality of your body. NLNL is a daggy, non-pretentious place to completely be yourself.’

Pitch black when you enter the room, the eyes quickly acclimatise.  And yeah, you can see peoples shapes and their movement (so theres no flinging into each other) but not enough to care.  There were a few Blue Light Disco moments with paffy tunes which sent my limbs into a static revolt, and a few fellow dancers who inflicted flash from taking a hundred photos of themselves.  These are small irks in an otherwise triumphant sweaty, joyous haze of dare I say it boogying*** madness.  And all for $5.00!

My ultimate love is being in a mosh pit getting lost in the music, buzzing off the energy of the crowd.  It is the most europhic high I’ve ever had.  And no, this wasn’t exactly the same…..but it was a bloody close cousin and alot easier to get in and out of.

My current thang is to get back in touch with my body and prise back my mojo from who or what ever stole it, lights or no lights.  My body and brain loved letting go.  Highly recommended way to spend an hour and a half.

I shall be going again.

* not any beat, my feet have particularly strong taste buds when it comes to tunes that make me want to get up off my thing

** I am not comparing my dancing prowess to the master of movement, think metaphor.

*** I cringe at its use, but it feels appropriate


About maree

I'm creative and curious and love writing about the fine and messy art of creating an authentic joy laden life.


  1. Mel-O

    Nice one Muzz! So next month? Let’s request a little more Spank Rock and a little less Whitney Houston. Love ya x

  2. Natalia

    Brilliant summary……I love how you write with foot notes!!! Ha! You have sold me; I would love to join next time…… Xox

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